Now here it is: 6 Ways to Teach Your Child Responsibility
1. Keep them busy -
You don't want a child to be idle for long. Everyone needs down time, and time to play or rest; but too much idle time leads to laziness. Children like the sense of accomplishment and praise they receive when a chore is completed. Give them regular chores and duties. Praise regularly, and always correct in love. An attitude of willingness with many mistakes is worth much more than perfection with resentment.
2. Teach them to work "smarter" not "harder"
This is where supplying the right tools will benefit greatly. Let them use a canister vacuum to "sweep" the kitchen floor, instead of frustrating them by teaching the proper way to use a broom. Besides, it's fun to watch the dirt get sucked up:) Use glass wipes instead of the spray and paper towels. These little short cuts will go a long way when a child is learning to help and be a responsible member of the family. Don't worry, they will learn how to sweep before they move out of the house.
3. Make checklists
By making a list they can check off as tasks are completed, children can have a visual picture of what is to be done, and what has already been accomplished. This is a great way to develop time management skills for them as well. I make lists all the time, and there are many that remain up (like; all the steps to taking a shower, or how to clean a bathroom properly, etc).
4. Give them a reason
Now, I don't mean we must explain why we expect them to clean their room or any other task we expect of them. I do, however, think we should make sure we point them to Christ every chance we get. Our children should know they were created for the same purpose we were; to glorify God. "So, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God." I Corinthians 10:31. There should be no mistake as to why they do anything and what attitude they should have while doing it. "Do all things without grumbling or questioning, that you may become blameless and innocent children of God." Philippians 2:14-15a
5. Hold them accountable
Short and brief.....what you expect, you must inspect. Don't tell them to complete a task and never follow up. You will be setting them up for failure. It's like on-the-job training, they must be constantly evaluated until there is mastery.
6. Model it
The best way to teach you children responsibility, is to show them what it looks like every chance you get. When they consistently see you being diligent in your life, they will understand better what is expected of them.
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